Today, I had a good chat with my friend in Shanghai about relationship and requirements. She gave me a lot of encouragement to pursue a girl. This girl is a friend of her and I. Can't put name here=) The only requirement that I probably need to work on is being a stable guy financially. Well, I guess I have to work bloody hard to be stable financially to win this girl's heart.

Is it worth working so hard just to win a girl's heart? Must I fulfill all her requirements? I don't mind fulfilling her requirement, but I do think that if she likes/loves me, she should understand I am trying my best to work hard in order to win her over. I know that there are many guys out there who are more stable than me financially. I don't know if she is patient enough to wait for me to become a successful person.

Why I like her? hmmm...Probably because we understand each other well, encourage each other in difficult times, also we know each other for since high school. Of course, she is one of the prettiest girls I have seen. I did tell her that she is pretty=). Does she like me? I have no idea. She did mention a couple of guys to me when we conversed last time, probably it is a one way feeling, huh?